The two of you should treat each other page equally. That does not mean that you should have the same responsibilities. Your role is not better than your partner’s role, and you should respect your partner. It is reasonable to have these feelings, but you should respect her role in the house as well. If you want a change, then speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Martin!
To Jenny.. Couldn’t agree with you more! 23 years of pain MAKES you not give a DAMN! I really don’t care at all. He just chipped a piece of my heart off everyday until now there’s no heart left. He can thank himself.
Once again we tentatively reconciled, re-committing ourselves to each other
Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. Please share more of your positive comments in the future. Have a great day, Cheryle!
I read through a few of these comments and I was hoping that you could help me and tell me if I’m seeing this right or not. I found out confronted her and she apologized and said she wasn’t feeling her self. She got a job and she actually started feeling better about us according to her, but I couldn’t shake my distrust of her infidelity, I felt more had gone on than she told me. Then I started to retire from my job so and she went to another state to secure housing for us and the kids. When I am finally able to join her I discover that she has been talking to an old acquaintance.
If she is doing her responsibilities for the house that the two of you have determined throughout your relationship, then she is meeting her requirements
While we were separated I had convinced myself that I had been over-reacting and was being foolish. Read more “I love my wife and I wanted to believe that things could get better”